A for Ass

The Body Series

Hello Wild Ones โคโคโค

I hope you are well and taking really good care of yourself. I hope you know how amazing you are and never let anyone put you down. I am currently really struggling getting back to blogging because I have spent too long out of it. I hadn’t planned to take a break. I felt low and it just like kept happening and didn’t know how to deal with it. But hopefully I am back now for good. The hope is that I will post twice daily everyday for the next year. (Finger crossed). I hope you keep showing up for the good content.

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I have tried to write for the past few days but I always chicken out or just find an excuse. I have discovered that every time my mental health is struggling, I have a tendency to procrastinate a lot which I have been doing a lot for the past few weeks. After a lot of chasing of my spirit I finally caught up with her so let’s get into this.

Body Series

This series hopes to explore issues that women face when it comes to insecurities about their bodies and societal pressures. (I was going to write just my experience then I realized that that’s just one body type) I hope this style makes sense to y’all.

A for Ass

Settle down alien let me introduced to humans who have put lots of value to the woman’s sitting apparatus. This one part has even caused many to die both literally and metaphorically. My dearest alien you will even have the opportunity to interview women with different types of ass. ( I know how absurb this sounds as soon as I said it.)

Alien, this body part is overemphasized especially on social media. There are even apps that allow people to enlarge them. Alien take heart that’s not even the shocking part, “There are even inventions to increase them in person.” It’s an insane thing to see how much value is attached to this. There’s so much to life and people yet we choose this one part to tell us so much about others and ourselves. What’s even more weird is how the perception changes every couple of years. Lemme introduce to some stories shared by women 2020.

Girl with a small booty

They call me flat screen. There are a thousand memes about me and how I am not a suitable lover. I always feel inadequate as far as social media goes and sometimes it translates into my life. I find myself wondering how I can increase them. I am on a squats regimen and I eat lots of starch just increase it. People’s go to insult is my ass like it’s part of my personality especially those little boys who cannot handle rejection. It’s hard to walk around and have people judge you based on something you cannot change. I don’t walk around feeling sorry for myself in fact often my booty is not an issue in my relationships but people always seem to want to bring it into the conversation.

Just a tired girl

Girl with a medium size booty

I am always the girl with a booty that hasn’t decided if it’s big or not. There’s always someone who is bigger than me and people always feel the need to compare. I am okay but not quite in their eyes. I carry a chip of inadequacy with me. It’s tiresome. I am also on a squats regimen and I sometimes fall prey to those preachings “How to make your ass bigger”

Just so tired girl

Girl with a big booty

When I walk into a room, eyes always shift to my ass. I am always the girl with the booty before anything. I sometimes walking in public, the jeers and cheers as people sexualize my ass are so uncomfortable. I am expected to take them as compliments but it’s really tiresome. This even gets worse when they decide that it’s okay to spank me out of nowhere. Don’t get me started on how hard it is to find clothes my size. Sometimes people glorify us online but don’t really want us in person. I am even going to start about their fake love for stretch marks.

Ever so tired girl

Girl with butt implants

I got these implants for myself and now when I look at the mirror, I am proud of what I see. Then I step out and everyone has a before and after collage trying to put down. People asking to touch my ass in order to compare. Sometimes they even decide that it’s not big enough. It’s a constant fight to feel adequate. I hate how they are always bringing my ass into the conversation. I always the girl with butt implants.

Ever tired girl

See Alien, these humans breaking each other’s spirit just because of a body part and no one is safe from their judgemental souls.

Here are some tips that could help those girls fall in love with themselves in a cruel world like this.

  • Compliment your body part
  • Follow people with your body type on social media, it always helps to see them looking really good.
  • Fall in love with yourself so no one can tell you anything about your body
  • Taking good pictures of yourself so that you can look at on days you feel less helps a lot.
  • Remember you are sexy as hell๐Ÿ˜›๐Ÿ˜›


Do you relate this issue? What other struggles do you face?


Today’s Tip


With Loooooove and Sunshine ๐Ÿ’–๐ŸŒž๐Ÿ’–๐ŸŒž, Jackie

12 Comments Add yours

  1. kinge says:

    Welcome back. Your absence was noticed.

    You’ve covered the topic wholly, it’s sad how we’ve come to oversexualize the body. Defining people using their body type and having a diluted group mentality. It’s worse to have to go through such experiences. I sympathize with future generarionssince this will only gets worse. It’s one of the main content that sells on social media and many other platforms. Feed enough people with such stuff and they sure will become it. Well written

    1. jackie says:

      True, it’s a really bad thing and it’s getting worse. I am not even sure what will become of the future generation.

  2. I love how you showed every girl’s body type insecurities..makes you see other’s struggles you didnt even know they had…ur always nailing these posts๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅcant wait for B๐Ÿ˜‚โค

    1. jackie says:

      Thank you. I am glad you enjoyed it and learnt something from it. Working on it. Thank you for reading and commenting.๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿ’“

      1. you are ever so welcome๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿค—

  3. vaniheart says:

    Loved that you discussed about every girl body type ..๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

    1. jackie says:

      Thank you๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿ’“ I am glad you enjoyed it.

  4. joycengugi says:

    Well addressed.. ๐Ÿ”ฅthis series is going to be awesome! ๐Ÿค—

    1. jackie says:

      ๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿ’“Thank you. I hope it gets better.

  5. Physical beauty might be a natural endowment of the young and be enjoyed as long it lasts, but aging with grace and self-awareness, is where the true challenge lies.

    1. jackie says:

      These are very wise words. I will remember them. Thank you for sharing.

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