Love Series

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Love Series

This series hopes to explore love using different words. I am just going to write what comes to me. I hope you enjoy it and learn something.


I love cute cards with beautiful messages on them, that satisfies both of my love languages, affirmations and gifts. I recently I met a person who unintentionally says the most affirming things to me and it felt like a friendship made in heaven. It was so easy for me to feel loved and wanted with them. At first I didn’t know why but being the overthinker that I am I overanalyzed the situation until I had answers; our love languages matched perfectly. This got me thinking about love languages and people who could have loved me but just missed my love language.

Sometimes I think that my exes could have loved me just not in my language. I am all about affirmations and gifts and it has always felt like I was forcing issues. Sometimes I would complain so much about the lack of attention that I would wonder if I was asking for too much. Of course, I would later realize that they may have loved me just not enough to even give bare minimum as far as my love languages were concerned. Because I am sure I communicated what I liked and wanted and somehow I still had to fight for it in every way. I often like to go back and say sorry to myself for putting myself through that for too long.

So then it all comes back to the fact that they were probably just never meant to be. You can’t teach a person to care about your happiness so what you should do is make sure you know your love language, practice self love using and communicate that that’s how you love being loved. If the person obliges you, perfect! If they don’t, then I guess in my case I wouldn’t stick around.


What is your love language?


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With Loooooove and Sunshine 💖🌞💖🌞, Jackie

11 Comments Add yours

  1. Jadwong says:

    Words of affirmation and quality time(with a pinch of physical touch if they are special) 🥰🤣

    1. jackie says:

      I hoped you find someone who caters to these.

  2. I love this episode so charismatic!❤️❤️

    1. jackie says:

      Thank you❤❤❤

  3. vaniheart says:

    Very relatable, I also demand very similar love language like yours💟💟

    1. jackie says:

      Thank you for reading💖💖💖

  4. PoojaG says:

    I’m like that too- I need attention sometimes and I feel like my ex’s didn’t pick up on that.

    1. jackie says:

      I hope you find someone who shows up in the way that you deserve.

  5. Wonani says:

    My top 3 love languages are words of affirmation, quality time and physical touch.

    For me on the other hand, I knew someone who always wanted to bombard me with gifts and that doesn’t work for me.
    Just talk to me please. That’s all 😂

    1. jackie says:

      😂😂😂😂 That must have been frustrating for both of you.

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