Types of Friends I fantasize about

Hello Wild Ones 🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️

I hope you are well and doing awesome things. I hope you are practicing self-forgiveness and gracing yourself for the mistakes that you have made in the past. I hope you are loving yourself. I am full of peace and love for myself and I have found grace for myself.

This draft has been lying on my dashboard for a very long time. When I started writing this I was feeling very alone. I was thinking about the kind of friends I wish I could manufacture. I love my friends and they really showed up when I was struggling with suicidal thoughts two months ago and I learned to appreciate them more. I am so grateful for them. This post has nothing to do with them. Just me fantasizing.

  • The Twin– This would be the friend who is exactly like me. They relate to my weirdness and understand my sensitivity. They would never freak out at the crazy things that I have in mind. The one I call when I do something stupid because they wouldn’t judge me. They are empathetic because they understand exactly who I am.
  • The Go-Getter– I would love to have a friend who is as obsessed as success as I am. The kind that’s always looking for opportunities and also sharing them. The kind that holds you accountable and expects the best from you. The kind pushes you to be the best because they see the greatness in you.
  • The fashionista– They are the best person to go for shopping with. They see the model in you and love your sexy for what it is. They help you choose the best clothes for you.
  • The fun one– They are the life of the party. The ones that I call when I need to party or get hyped. I am never worried how my party will be because this friend will be the plug!!

I think I am the go-getter friend for most of my friends because I am always shoving opportunities down their throats and giving unsolicited feedback on stuff.

What kind of friends do you wish you had? What kind of friends are you? Lemme know!!


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22 Comments Add yours

  1. I’m definitely the go-getter and always sharing stuff(I honestly think people are at times tired of me😂).

    Also today’s tip, the unhealthy co-dependence, very eye-opening for me.

    1. jackie says:

      Yeiiiy!! You relate!
      I am glad it was helpful.

  2. I am also the go-getter for all my friends. I wish I had a go-getter friend. Lol.

    1. jackie says:

      Me too!!

  3. Shelly DS says:

    Ooh that’s a fun one! I wish I had the ever available friend and the twin 😊

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  4. Shan❤ says:

    Heeeey Jackie..hope you’re OK😊
    Anyway let’s see…I’d trade whatever for the gogetter ,twin and fashionista😭😭❤..( the fun one..I’m not party kiddo so let’s leave that aside)
    Then I’m both the twin( to those I hold veryyy dear) and go-getter to everyone…😊
    Thanks for such a great post

    Thanks for the tip❤

    1. jackie says:

      I am well, thank you for asking. I bet those around you are lucky to have you.

      I am glad you liked it.

      1. Shan❤ says:


  5. The Go getter and fun ones. I love such kind of friends

    1. jackie says:

      I know right!! They are the best

  6. PURU says:

    I am the go-getter and I wish I had the twin friend.

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  7. PoojaG says:

    Really great post! I have the other three but I don’t think I have any friends who are the life of the party. We’re all pretty introverted/chill so maybe I need to get one of those lol!

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  8. judeitakali says:

    I guess I’m the no judging empathetic type. With a sprinkle of the rest.
    Wonderful post Jackie 🌼

    1. jackie says:

      I actually thought about you when I wrote about empathy.
      Thank you🧡🧡

      1. judeitakali says:

        That warms my heart, thank you for mentioning it 💛

  9. Good stuff. 🙂

    1. jackie says:

      Thank you💞💞

  10. I love how the draft that was lying around got more likes than some posts..there’s a message there too🥳Id love a twin😂💕

    1. jackie says:

      Yeah! I thought about this too. I was impressed at how much people related to it💕💕

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