Forever

Love Series

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Love Series

This series hopes to explore love using different words. I am just going to write what comes to me. I hope you enjoy it and learn something.

Forever

Can love be forever? (Today I just have rhetorical questions) Is there someone out there for me who will love me forever and I will do the same? I have seen people post on their social media that they are so in love that a lifetime is not enough. They are either exaggerating or I am yet to experience a love that deep and beautiful. A love that inspires multiple sonnets like those of Shakespeare. But maybe I am looking at this all wrong. Maybe love is eternal and forever but this doesn’t mean that the loved ones always stay together. Maybe the best kind of love is the one where lovers don’t stay together. Maybe love is a choice and every day you choose to wake up and fall all over again with your beloved.

I once read that we spend a lot of time in school, but no one teaches how to find a spouse. The kind of spouse you choose determines the kind you live massively. They affect your finances, mood in the morning, your career aspirations, and every decision you make once you are married. Once you have babies together, you are stuck together for life unless you choose to be deadbeat. How do we choose a forever with a person? Do these forever people come with a tag with them? Does your heart pound faster when you meet them? How do you know? I often hear people say that when you know, you know. I wonder how you know that you actually know.

I don’t remember what movie it was but someone once said that you know that a relationship is not for you when you are crying more than you are laughing. I kept thinking about this in my previous relationship, I had decided that I had arrived and I was going to choose to love this person no matter what. In honesty, I hadn’t been happy for a very long time but I believed in a day that I will wake up and love wouldn’t feel like calculus. So here goes another question, how do you tell the difference between knowing a bad season that will end and sticking around a never-ending horror of pain?

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Do you believe that love is forever?

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With Loooooove and Sunshine 💖🌞💖🌞, Jackie

3 Comments Add yours

  1. Man all over the worlds are fascinated and captivated by he feminine! Driven restlessly to find the right partner, admiring and worshipping woman for their beauty and simply could not do without women at all! And still men all over the world are behaving vile and disrespectful towards the goddesses of their dreams.
    What could be the answer to that depressing state of affairs? To many choices, to many conflicting ideas, the illusionism created by the media and degrading cultural customs?
    Above all along time ago we have lost the worship of the feminine in nature to the doctrines of religions.
    Your blog is a valuable contribution to reverse men’s misconceptions of women.

  2. Leah says:

    I don’t want to be pessimistic but at times I tend to think ‘forever’ is an empty promise. One of the things I’ve decided to do once I get in a relationship is to live in the moment and not think of whether it will be long lasting or not.
    I will take love where I find it, even if it means hours, days or just few Years. I’ve never been in love but I read in Paulo Coelho’s book, when one is in love it no longer matters what is possible or impossible or whether we can keep the loved one at our side. To love is to loose control and he states that one can never understand Love.

    1. jackie says:

      I have been in love and yeah love has a sense of loss of control. I relate to the sentiment that love should be done in the moment. I try to do that in all my relationship to take each at a time with hope it builds up to something bigger and better.

      Thank you for reading and commenting💝

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