How I show myself love

Hello Wild Ones 🧡 🧡 🧡 🧡

I hope you are well and doing great things. My prayer is that you are loving on yourself and taking good of yourself. I am currently full of hope and dreams.

My primary love language is word of affirmations while the secondary one is receiving gifts. These love languages can feel a little hard to execute on yourself because it’s considered vain to speak highly of yourself and also surprising yourself with gifts is hard. But I have found ways to love myself in the following ways.

Affirmation Parties

When I am feeling really low, I play my favorite music and dedicate songs to myself. I also spend time to write sweet words on sticker notes, my journal and also text myself on Whatsapp. This helps me get into the love myself and get high on myself.

Love Cards

I enjoy to buy many cards and write nice things for myself and sometimes I add gifts in it. Then I put them in places I am likely to forget about. When I find them, I feel very impressed and in love with myself.

A Journal

I make a point to write often on my journal especially when I am in my feelings. It helps me process my feelings and then later when read what I wrote to myself , I feel understood and loved. It’s a beautiful thing when you are aware that of your own love of yourself.

FutureMe.Org Letter

I also send myself letters into the future and everytime I receive them, I feel so special.


I buy myself sweets especially those with cute wrappings then misplace around my things so sometimes I am just looking through my bag and I find a sweet for me.

My love Jar

I fill compliments on a jar when I am in a good mood then read them on bad days. Sometimes I also google love quotes and add them in my jar.

Mirror Sessions

I spend time in front of my mirror to admire myself. I love to look at everything I like about my body and compliment myself.

How do you show love to yourself?


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20 Comments Add yours

  1. Liz says:

    I like the idea of affirmination party. I have not heard of that one before.

    1. jackie says:

      It’s something I created for myself. You should try it. It has really good results.

      1. Liz says:

        It’s certainly a good idea that one. 🙂

  2. ChallEngEr says:


    1. jackie says:

      Thank you.

  3. Wendy says:

    I do the mirror sessions and affirmation party. They go hand in hand for me. And in place of sweets, I leave some loose change in different places and clothes and when I find them I feel really good. The love jar sounds like a nice thing to try. Thanks for this♥️

    1. jackie says:

      Eiiiy!! I should try the loose change too.

  4. judeitakali says:

    Hi Jackie. I really adore your positivity. It’s so well balanced. 💛💚🌷

    1. jackie says:

      Thank you so much Jude.

      1. judeitakali says:

        Anytime Jackie, it’s so my pleasure 🌼🧡

  5. Mind if I steal some of loving myself ways and tips from you 😂😍

    1. jackie says:

      Please do😍

  6. Karen Njihia says:

    😂Wow I am definitely stealing some

    1. jackie says:

      Please do

  7. Adeola says:

    I’m such a mirror fan. Can’t say I’m not fully obsessed 😂😂 And I’m definitely going to try out the FutureMe letters and the love jar

    1. jackie says:

      Let me know how it works outs

  8. Adeola says:

    I will. Thanks ❤️

  9. Wow. These are beautiful ideas!! I definitely should look into the Love Jar and the mirror sessions. I’ve tried writing myself letters. Just decided of recent to get a little more consistency on it, like once every month. And this may not count because I’m not doing it yet but I’m thinking of taking selfies everyday. It won’t count for most people 😅 but I hardly ever take photos of myself so it’s exciting in a way.

    1. jackie says:

      You should totally do the selfies. I got my cousin to take pictures of me for a whole month and it did wonders for my confidence.

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