‘Shoulds’ masquerade themselves as goals or high standards. Shoulds feel like obligations and like we have to do them because we should. They are not authentic at all.
I have been looking at myself and my behavior towards certain people in my life and I wondered if I was a simp. I did that test, I am the Queen of Simpness. I could start a school on simping.
Once you have seen your peers going off to big countries and having the time of their lives, you start to think that you have failed because the furthest you have gone all year long is outside your house to get milk.
Women should have the power to where what they want without being sexualized, harassed, and judged. Some women find power in modesty and others find power in showing off their bodies. The world should have a place for both kinds of women.
Look in the mirror and declare that you are beautiful.